Choice

I try to not let things others say offend me. BUT I am human...and female so it tends to still happen. Recently Husband and I made the choice(Really it was me saying I wanted to and him saying ok) for me to go back to work part time. For many reasons.
I am so excited. I got a job. It will be absolutely perfect for what I want/Need with still not wanting to put Monkey in daycare just yet...
Someone made a comment that I felt JUDGED my choice to be a "working mom". I snapped. (Sort of)
I couldn't understand why someone ANYONE would feel that it was "Ok" for them to comment/judge a choice I(we) made for MY family. Afterall it is my life, my son, my husband...me that is effected by my choices.
My uncle. Who is an AMAZING person commented this
"only you can judge your actions, if you are cool with what you did then no one can take that away from you no matter what they say", and then it just all sort of clicked.
Although I do believe God is the ultimate Judge...in this case I am rolling with it.
All that matters is that I, am "cool" with the choice I make. (Well Husband too)
If you don't agree with me then great. That is in the end, your choice. AS long as you remember in the end...the choice is really just mine and mine alone.
And now I feel much much better and will be going to bed. Husband is up early tomorrow. The weekend is OVER. :(